Love

So, i am back into blogging after two years...but who cares for that, even i had said three it would have hardly made any difference. Last year I made a lot of friends, the best thing about making friends, it doesn't cost anything other than few true words and a stretched smile. You know, all of us have it inherent in us to crave for someone, with whom we could laugh, with whom we could cry, and to whom we could prove how smart we are.

But, but and but there's something we die for everyday, truly all of us....and that is for someone, from whom we could hear "I love you". Don't you think there are lot of people around whom we could move upto and say..."hey dear, I love you"..but do we actually do it? no, we don't. Ideally, we keep waiting for someone, preferably the best one in the crowd, to come up on some bright sunny day, give a bear hug and say those ubiquitous still rare words, and to our dismay, it doesn't happen.



Love, a word which emanates the sense of completeness in itself, a word which travels through your ear drum only to reach your heart and not your brain. The beauty of Love lies in the fact that it is omnipresent and still we can't discover. We browse through faces and do a Googling, ultimately, searching for someone whom we aren't sure about ourselves. But why is it so that we can't actually find the one? Because there is no "the one"!

God is a one smart fellow, and he proves it every now and then. He never gave us a choice to choose our parents, and we have been loving them since we didn't even know how to spell Love. But he gave us all the rights to choose our love partners, if not the life partners. He installed an internal radar in us to read the vibes from the opposite sex and get attracted. Other than that, for some fun, he screwed us in head, by never giving the strength to move a step ahead and be ready for consequences. Now, when he provided us the choice, we could never choose, and that is either because we keep searching for non existent mr or ms compatible, or because we are not sure whether the feeling is actually Love! Poor we, and our buddy up there is having all the fun. But he bestows lucky few with the enlightenment. Hey, I am in not those lucky few. Infact, I am among the worse breed of lovers who has found "Rab" in 26 girls since the time Shahrukh found in TannyG. I tell you, God sincerely doesn't care for such breed of people.



So, what is this enlightenment? I will tell you. Do you love your Dog? Yes you do, every body does, or else why have a dog? The obedient little tail wagging fellow, who loves you unconditionally and is God damn loyal. Now, I don't mean girls should look for some guy of that kind, but what i mean is you got to understand that you didn't select your dog from the store beacuse you loved it rather you love your dog because you selected it. It happened gradually. Suppose you selected some other dog on that day from the store, would you not love it anyway today. You could say "yeah, i do because it's as loyal and good, but i made a compromise that day, as i liked the other one". So what if you had the dog of your choice would the likeness persist today. No, beacuse likeness is like a River and Love is like an Ocean. You can't even identify the river in an Ocean when the River flows into an Ocean. This is what we need to understand. Love comes with time and is independent of mass, distance and space. When we are with anyone for a sufficient duration, ofcourse with cordial relation, all the reasonings take a backseat and Love leads. It's independent of mass, you are going to love your heavy wife or your behemoth husband. It's independent of distance, that's what telecom companies are cashing on and is independent of space, you can fall in Love in class, in your neighbourhood or for that case in your office but not with someone you just looked at hanging from a fast local train. That's momentary likeness. But as I said I am a worse breed, I still got one point of view to share in this matter.

Can we have both the dogs?